I wanted to wait and write this post when we know for sure whatÂ’s going on. But as the weeks rolled by, I realized that this is the Army, and weÂ’re never going to know for sure whatÂ’s going on. So I will tell you what I know today, and weÂ’ll see what tomorrow brings.

Last spring I wrote a proud post about my husband answering the call for active duty Civil Affairs. We had begun to plan our life around this decision, because we considered it a done deal: they were desperate for people, my husbandÂ’s language proficiency score was forty points higher than they were looking for, and he had recommendations and award citations all stating that, yes, he does in fact walk on water and should be considered for the job. That made the two-line form-letter rejection email he got in May a crushing blow.

We had just been back in the US for a couple of days, and my husband was completely depressed. He tried to find out why he had been rejected, but just ended up with more form letters. And he didnÂ’t want me to post anything about it because he was embarrassed. I was just angry. I couldnÂ’t understand why the Army would make such a stupid decision: they had someone who was begging to learn Arabic and deploy as much as they needed, and they turned their back on him. We figured the only thing that made sense was that Finance wouldnÂ’t release him from their grasp, which just made me madder. Which is more important, winning this war or running a cash cage? Neither of us could understand. He started talking about getting out of the Army, which naturally threw me into a panic. Our homecoming from Germany was not what we expected.

Fast forward to September, when my husbandÂ’s branch manager came to speak to the captains course. She explained that the Finance branch is dwindling fast, and since theyÂ’re overflowing with extra captains, maybe some of them might consider the new and exciting field ofÂ…Civil Affairs. My husband was stunned and outraged. When he finally sat down with his branch manager, he explained that he had already tried to leave for Civil Affairs. And she explained that Finance had blocked him; his packet never even made it onto a Civil AffairÂ’s desk. Information that wouldÂ’ve been nice to know in May, before he tore himself into knots thinking that maybe he couldÂ’ve used one more recommendation letter! So he asked if he could have another shot at Civil Affairs. As of yesterday, this looks promising. WeÂ’re still trying to figure out the exact schedule, but it looks like it might finally happen.

But in the meantimeÂ…

Since there are far more Finance captains than jobs, everyone in his course is getting farmed out to random taskings. He and another soldier were assigned jobs at the same post, but my husband got a Finance job and this other guy was assigned to a unit thatÂ’s deploying to Iraq in December.

My husband came home and asked me if he could trade assignments with the guy.

Every time I think I couldn't be prouder of my husband, he does something to amaze me. This other soldier just returned from a deployment, and my husband doesn't think it's fair that this guy should do another so soon when my husband hasn't been since OIF II. But there's more to his decision than just equality of downrangedness: my husband thinks that the War on Terror is important, and he has an emotional investment in the future of Iraq.

Our old neighbor in Germany was all set to get out of the Army when he got stop-lossed and deployed. He could’ve been quite bitter about it, but instead he sent out an email that really grabbed me by the heart. In it he said, “In Texas, people thank you for serving in the Armed Forces all of the time. I know they do not mean thanks ‘for living in Germany, drinking beer, and eating bratwurst.’ When it is all said and done I will be able to look them straight in the eye and know I have done my part.”

My husband also doesnÂ’t think that people are thanking him for cashing social security checks for German widows so they can hide the income from their government, which was what he spent a lot of time doing in Germany. He wants his service to mean more than that. He wants to do anything he can to help our country win this war. He gets personal satisfaction and meaning from doing a job that matters in the world, and right now he thinks he could matter more on a deployment.

So he asked my permission. And I granted it.

Most people IÂ’ve told this story to think weÂ’re certifiably insane. But the truth is, everyone reading this knows how we feel about this War on Terror. And if we feel that way, we canÂ’t let some other family fight it for us. Morally, I canÂ’t support the war but hope someone elseÂ’s husband will go fight it. And I think we need the best and brightest soldiers out there doing the job if weÂ’re going to winÂ…and you all know I think my soldier is the absolute best and brightest!

So my husband traded assignments with this guy, in exchange for a case of Budweiser Select. I told him IÂ’m contacting Anheuser-Busch, because they should know that a man agreed to spend a year in Iraq for a case of their beer.

And then he got an email yesterday saying that heÂ’s going to Afghanistan, not Iraq.

At this point, IÂ’m throwing my hands in the air and giving up. He may or may not switch from Finance to Civil Affairs. He may or may not go to either Iraq or Afghanistan at the end of this year or beginning of next year. He got another email saying he could start Civil Affairs training in May, which is smackdab in the middle of when heÂ’s supposed to be in Iraq. Or Afghanistan.

WeÂ’re going house-hunting this weekend. Hopefully weÂ’ll find something and move me into it before my husband goes wherever heÂ’s going to do whatever it is heÂ’s doing. IÂ’m getting the hang of this Army thing and just taking it as it comes.

More when we know it, faithful readers.

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Please go read this comment from Chuck Ziegenfuss. He was the inspiration behind Project Valour-IT, which provides voice-activated laptops to wounded troops. The comment he posted was remarkable for its insight into how he deals with his wounds. And then donate to Valour-IT if you're so moved.

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Varifrank also has some post-election advice for us.
By the way, my husband is "playing" Sherman in an exercise they're doing on his staff ride today. No one else wanted to touch Sherman with a ten foot pole. My husband, on the other hand, thinks he was a pretty smart guy.
Personally, I've just enjoyed teasing him about the "Civil War reenactment" he's participating in. Hopefully he can work in a game of grab-ass.

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Bill Whittle has some post-election advice we all should read.
And a new essay up!

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I thought of something I really miss about being in USAREUR.

Yes, I actually said that sentence; I can't believe it either. But it came to me in a revelation while I stood in the grocery store with cow blood all over my hands: I really miss the vacuum-packed meat. What is the deal with going to the store and getting covered in chicken and beef juice? This plastic-wrap-over-styrofoam doesn't work, people! It leaks! Which is gross and slightly dangerous. It's not healthy to be walking around covered in raw chicken, right? I hate that. I miss the days of clean packs of meat in the commissary in Germany.

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Via Hud: Iraqi Leader Disparages US Media Coverage

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There's a monument up in Iraq to honor the fallen soldiers from my husband's old brigade. Just take a moment to look at the pictures and absorb this statement: "This is a very special place on Forward Operating Base Warhorse. No one is allowed to walk on the grass and the grass is watered daily." There are names on there of men I never met but think of all the time: Ludlam, Rosales, Kondor, Kenny, Prewitt, Sims, and Becker.

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Here's an flawlessly-executed joke, no botching at all.

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Via Tanker Brothers: Soldiers say Iraq pullout would be devastating

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Oh lord, here's what we have to look forward to: Democrat constituents screeching for impeachment.

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Here's something I don't remember noticing in July: Saddam specifically asked not to be hanged like a common criminal.

"I advise you as an Iraqi, if you were in a circumstance in which you have to issue a death penalty, you have to remember that Saddam is a military man and in this case the verdict should be death by shooting not by hanging," [Saddam] told the judge.

Justice, thy name is the gallows.

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Woah...Neil Armstrong didn't say what you think he said!

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BlameBush rallies the voters today:

Today, Americans all across the country, living and dead, will exercise their right and responsibility to vote Democrat. Of all the rights granted to us in the Constitution, the Right to Vote Democrat is one of our most sacred, second only to the Right to Choose. So it is vital that no matter how many times we vote today, we do so with the same courage and conviction we put into having abortions.

Read the whole danged thing.
(And for those who've never been to that site: Psst, it's a joke.)

By the way, this one is good too:

Thrice wounded on the battlefields of Vietnam, Sen. John Kerry would never dream of insulting the intelligence of our babykilling, genital-shocking, cattle razing, women-and-children-terrorizing troops. If they had any brains, theyÂ’d know that.

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The Press at War: What ever happened to patriotic reporters?

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I was intrigued by the MSN link called Women: 20 musts before 40. Geez, I've only got eleven years left! I'd better get in gear.

Uh, what?

All in all, MSN advocates $94,154 worth of consumer goods, plus pricetagless trips to see the Dalai Lama and a haircut from some famous L.A. barber.

Get real.

A Cadillac XLR roadster and Gucci luggage? That's what women need? Doesn't the average American household have something like $8000 in consumer debt? And MSN thinks that suggesting $4000 watches and trips to Mongolia is a good idea?

Seriously, what planet are these people living on? You know what women need by the age of 40? Maturity and self-respect. Then they won't fill that void with fancy suits, watches, haircuts, and cars.

Some of the suggestions were reasonable: a subscription to a smarty-smart magazine, a few jazz CDs, and some classic movies. Get people to broaden their horizons. Even a trip isn't a bad idea, though it's condescending to say that Europe is oh-so-yesterday and now the Third World is where it's at. Maybe MSN can encourage these women to adopt an African baby while they're there; it's all the rage, right?

I'm regularly disgusted and offended by the nonsense MSN prints, but this is just over the top. Who do they think their target audience is, suggesting a $78,000 car? Is Julie Greenwald hanging out on MSN trying to figure out what she should buy with her millions? I imagine most women who click that link are looking for more spiritual advice: find a hobby you really love, teach your children to waltz, volunteer for a charity that empowers you. Not more ways to spend money.

What the hell is wrong with our culture, that this passes as advice for women?

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Via RWN: Steve Harrigan from Fox News gets waterboarded. Wow, that's really amazing journalism. Harrigan wanted to see the fact behind this interrogation technique, so he put himself on the line to find out. That's awesome.

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Alton Brown
speaking Swedish
the Crunchwrap (CaliValley even got a comment from the creator of the Crunchwrap)
the cast of The Magnificent Seven
anything that comes out of Butters' mouth
the stupid grin I get when I hear "Burning Love" or "Mmmbop"
Robertson Davies
chocolate iced rings from Dunkin Donuts
opening a jar of new peanut butter
Wes Anderson
Mormons
knitting for babies
Old 97s
Lolita
the very first and very last discs of episodes of Futurama
Jimmy Stewart
John Doe
When Lileks told Salam Pax "F**k you"
the squirrel in the Hoodwinked! trailer who says dee-na-meee-tay
buying postage stamps
high and tight haircuts

Most of the time, this blog feels like it's just me and Will. I noticed that AWTM asked her lurking readers to de-lurk and comment once on one post. (She got 25 people to chime in, but she has more readers than I do.) I thought that was such a fun idea that I'd like to do the same. Tell me something you love too.

(This post inspired by trying the opposite of a Piece of Crap List. I'll do one of those one day too.)

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1 Seeing as I JUST de-lurked on the other post, does this count? What timing. I love leaf piles and cold weather.

Posted by: Sabbrielle at November 06, 2006 08:55 AM (C0EP2)

2 I love Mormons too! Everytime I would see them in Germany I would run up to them and say "hi!" They used to be a bit freaked out, but it was so great seeing someone from home. And man, their mission is hardcore. If you have been sent to mission in a country where they speak a foreign language and the government has pretty much been open about its distaste for all denominations outside of Protestants and Catholics, you are pretty brave in my book.

Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at November 06, 2006 08:58 AM (deur4)

3 I love my boys, my soldier, welcome home ceremonies, babies, smiles, reality TV shows and Christmas morning. I also love your blog...Thank God there is someone on this earth that feels so strongly about the same kind of issues I do. Thank God you have the courage to express your views in such a mature and intelligent venue. You always say exactly the right things and it seems like that's just how I feel too!

Posted by: Angie at November 06, 2006 09:28 AM (ec43W)

4 I never thought I'd see Wes Anderson and Mormons right next to each other on a list. So congratulations - you've blown my mind once again. BTW, have you seen the South Park about Joseph Smith? It's a classic. Anyway, my Anderson favs in order: 1. The Life Aquatic 2. Rushmore 3. The Royal Tenenbaums 4. Bottle Rocket (this is my girlfriend's Favorite Movie Ever)

Posted by: Will at November 06, 2006 11:17 AM (QRBGL)

5 1) Indiana University Basketball. 2) Popcorn that isn't microwaved. 3) Curbside trash pick up. Seriously, how amazing is that? Put it out and someone takes it away forever. 4) Election day. Even if it's just for the local school board,I love that I get a say. 5) The Public Library. All sorts of books on about any topic you wish. 6) Dogs. My dog,my neighbor's dogs,Charlie. I don't trust people who don't like dogs. 7) I love that I am a citizen and NOT a subject. I love that if I met the Queen,it would be wrong to curtsy to her,because TECHNICALLY she is my peer. The internet. Big brother isn't watching us, George Orwell. We're watching him. 9) I love the kindness and decency of the average American. I love the generosity and spirit of volunteerism I see coming from regular folks. 10) I love that yesterday I stopped in to "The Woodchuck IGA" out in the middle of NOWHERE and there,over the register,was the photo of the soldiers with the "HELP US JON CARRY" sign. The WOODCHUCK IGA people. See #8 for how this very recent photo happened to be there.

Posted by: MaryIndiana at November 06, 2006 11:56 AM (YwdKL)

6 I love living in America, the sound of rain, bear hugs, being pregnant, and the Green Bay Packers.

Posted by: Jen D at November 06, 2006 12:05 PM (D4EDG)

7 I am glad you love Mormons, even if they are not "practicing". I like clean sheets hot baths laughing and happy well behave children smell of new babies welcome home kisses good books a fantastic book when I find a letter and no bills in the mail orange leaves

Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at November 06, 2006 12:28 PM (GrO13)

8 I love Wes Anderson, and think he should do a movie about Mormans leaving Utah and moving to Germany

Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at November 06, 2006 12:29 PM (GrO13)

9 First time commenter, long time reader and enjoyer of your blog. I love being an American I love that my kids are now officially grown (24 and 21) and the pressure is off me - what they make of their lives is now up to them! I love the way the internet has brought the whole world right into our homes and destroyed the hold elitists once had on information and how it was disseminated. Wait- I forgot I did once comment before. So this isn't my official first post!

Posted by: Amy at November 06, 2006 01:41 PM (I9LMv)

10 Things I love: 1. My soldier 2. My kids (Frick and Frack) 3. My family 4. My job (it can happen) 5. My friends 6. The rain 7. Fall and Winter 8. ALL babies (the smell too) 9. My life 10. and last but not least.....I love me!

Posted by: Vonn at November 06, 2006 04:14 PM (/VoEr)

11 Loyalty, Duty, Respect, Selfless Service, Honor, Integrity, Personal Courage.

Posted by: Eric Chen at November 06, 2006 05:18 PM (ldef+)

12 I love: --my soldier --my three children --Texas --Election Day --Blue Bell Ice Cream --artichokes --that after a BBA and a MBA I am done with school....for now --my parents for giving me a great start in life that a lot of people don't get. I hope that I am making them proud with what I have done so far. I miss you Dad! --Love your blog and many others that I read --I also love being a military wife and I love that my hero is also my husband and my best friend. Hmmm.....I'm sure there is a lot else, like I would love to have a couple hours of sleep but until DH comes home that is out of the question!

Posted by: Curly26 at November 06, 2006 05:21 PM (kQWmi)

13 I love: 1. My family 2. Interesting conversations with my daughter 3. Our dog Toby 4. Flowers 5. Rain at night 6. Genealogy 7. A beautiful snowy day 8. Babies 9. Traveling to new places 10.Dancing How's that? Your Mama

Posted by: Nancy at November 06, 2006 06:12 PM (hNLfY)

14 A stack of new books and a 2 week vacation. Freshly mowed grass. Hugh Hewitts quotations at the beginning of each hour...especially Aragorn's "St Crispin Day" speech..."Stand Men of the West" Chocolate cake and a good cup of coffee The Internet...especially blogs...milblogs Trying to Grok was the first blog I read.

Posted by: Mary*Ann at November 06, 2006 07:04 PM (bdvqO)

15 1. God 2. Going to church on regular days 3. My daughters 4. My ex-wife 5. My parents 6. America 7. Cats and dogs 8. Talk radio 9. Trying to Grok 10. Early Heinlein 11. Andre Norton

Posted by: Don at November 06, 2006 07:33 PM (6VFW4)

16 Things I love 1. Opening a new can of coffee. 2. Kittens and Puppies 3. Finding a new (or undiscovered by me) book by an old author. 4. Sunrise 5. Having a family & home to come home to. 6. My wife. 7. My cat who come to ME to have his ears scratched. 8. The ability to ignore or pay attention to the world around me and the freedom to do so. 9. Being able to walk into a grocery store and buy food without having to grow it myself. 10. Technology.

Posted by: SciFiJim at November 06, 2006 07:59 PM (tLU1K)

17 Delurked, cha cha cha. Still lovin' yer blog. Thanks for the great posts.

Posted by: JACK ARMY at November 06, 2006 08:25 PM (fuKox)

18 An occasional poster, but every day reader: Opinion Journal trying to grok The Bleat Scrappleface.... I love your positive attitude, your sacrifice, your honor and morals, and how young and enthusiastic you are! (I've got about 20 years on you.) I love how in love you and your husband are. I love how you put yourself out there and say what you believe (not easy these days!). Also: puppy tummies baby pectoral fat rolls a good thunderstorm how my lawn looks after a good mow community on Scrappleface The Grace of God blog on.....

Posted by: MargeinMI at November 07, 2006 02:03 AM (Nf9lC)

19 I love: * Peanut butter and cheese. * Big machines. DC-3s, earthmovers, whatever. * Violin solos, whether in Gaelic folk music, bluegrass, whatever. * Debating ethics and philosophy, as long as we use small words On a larger scale, I like reasoned debate, not slanging matches. * Sci-fi, fantasy, and history. * Zombies, giant robots, pirates, kittens, and ninjas. But hey, who doesn't?

Posted by: Hiraethin at November 07, 2006 02:27 AM (hnFlP)

20 I think (But I don't recall now..)I posted on your blog once last week. I love it. So I am not sure if this is officially de-lurking.. Things I Love. 1) my husband and 2 girls 2) the smell of fresh cut grass 3) Laughing 4) the song "When you say nothing at all" (Duet version by Alison Krauss and Keith Whitely) 5) reminiscing with friends

Posted by: Keri at November 07, 2006 04:55 AM (PgLZz)

21 I've been reading your blog regularly for a while now and commented a few times. So, you know I love trying to grok. Other things I love are: God's mercy and grace. My wonderful husband of 27 years (so far). Our two beautiful daughters. My huge extended family. America. Alabama football(Roll Tide) even when we lose. Seeing Old Glory flying over our embassy when I'm in a foreign country. Freedom. The fact that there are still people who understand that there are some things worth fighting for. A rainy day at home, cuddling with my hubby and watching old movies. Books and libraries. The internet. Traveling. Christmas. Thanksgiving. I could go on and on. But, that's a good start on the things I love.

Posted by: Pamela at November 07, 2006 05:08 AM (xf/WZ)

22 I love it when a plan comes together.

Posted by: Bob at November 07, 2006 01:14 PM (WMa4u)

23 Jag älskar Amerika. Och mina barn, min fru, mörk choklad, J&B, pizza med Bud, RHCP, att vara en neocon, Italien, frihet, att blogga, Battlefield 2142, svensk sommar, vara DJ på fester, kräftor, och alla som tjänstgjort i Irak. Hope you enjoy reading Swedish as much as speaking it, Sarah Sorry to all for not making sense.

Posted by: Anders at November 08, 2006 06:48 AM (RWjHO)

24 De-lurked... Love: The USA My soldiers Hammock and a good book on a warm day Fresh laundry Cat purring Thanks for the blog and for your and your husband's service keeping the rest of us safe in our beds.

Posted by: Molly at November 08, 2006 03:11 PM (8PL1W)

25 Sarah, I love Alton Brown too!! I love the movie Office Space, and this line in particular: Peter: I'd say in a given week I probably only do about fifteen minutes of real, actual, work.

Posted by: Kate at November 09, 2006 12:37 PM (h/MYc)

26 I love... My husband, friends and family My dog Babies when they laugh Crisp fall mornings Pumpkin cheesecake Reading Learning something new Taking a great photo The way the Army has shaped me Oh and Gluehwein

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I've been ranting about TV elsewhere because I usually get it with both barrels when I write about TV here. Yes, I know it's not real.

Anyway, Teresa pointed out that Hollywood is not very good at writing realistic marriages. I was shocked recently to see that KFC commercial where the young wife is on the phone and she "signs" what she wants for dinner to her husband. And her husband's buddy doesn't get it, so he explains their secret language. Every time I see that commercial, I keep waiting for it to change. I keep waiting for the punchline to be that the husband is complete dufus who doesn't know anything about his wife. As it stands, that commercial is really stinking cute. It shows married people actually working in harmony, knowing each other on an extremely personal level. You never get that on TV.

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1 And the de-lurking commences... Have you heard of the sci-fi TV show Firefly or its movie Serenity? Created by genius (and liberal) Joss Whedon, it's funny, fascinating, and thrilling. Of the crew, the captain is vocally libertarian. Two of the characters are happily married. One character is a "shepherd" or pastor/missionary type who is not a kook, fanatic, or two-faced pervert. You should try it if you haven't already.

Posted by: Sabbrielle at November 06, 2006 08:52 AM (C0EP2)

2 I've seen everyone in the blog world go nutso over Serenity, so I was planning on seeing it soon. My dad used to watch Firefly, but I just tuned in for John Doe afterwards!

Posted by: Sarah at November 06, 2006 09:19 AM (7Wklx)

3 I recommend watching Firefly first. There are fourteen total episodes. The Sci-fi channel is showing a Firefly marathon on December 12th. Of course, if your husband already likes the show, the DVD set would be a good investment. *shameless*

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I'm reminded again of the absolute horror my Swedish friend felt when she saw me clapping and cheering the day Timothy McVeigh was executed. But I feel the same now about Saddam as I did back then: If someone called me today and said they're short a hangman and could I come give 'em a hand, I'd say, "Give me a second to put my shoes on."

Smash is right:

Unfortunately, the sentence is not to be carried out at daybreak. Appeals and due process will delay the execution for months, if not years. Saddam will get more consideration than any of his victims ever received, and arguably more than he deserves, but that's one of the many differences between freedom and tyranny.

I guess this is enough consolation for today. At least it made our household chuckle:

Thousands of Iraqis sang, danced and unleashed celebratory bursts of gunfire yesterday as Saddam Hussein finally faced the consequences of his tyrannical rule in a Baghdad courtroom.

Oh, the Iraqis and their celebratory gunfire.

The husband's leaving for a field trip tomorrow, or else a cake would be in order. I'll just have to remember the deliciousness of the dragging-him-out-of-a-dirty-hole cake. And dream of the deliciousness of the hanging-by-his-broken-neck cake I'll get to make someday. Yummy.

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We sold a few books, we signed 'em, but mostly we talked. Non-stop.

If you read his blog way back when, you know what kind of man Tim is. But all you know about Patti is that she is the Sweetest Woman on the Planet. That makes it funny to hear the sweetest woman on the planet say she wants to smack John Kerry! Patti has "rounded out" in my mind since the days of reading Tim's blog, and I just can't get enough of this couple.

My husband and I talked a lot on the way home about what kind of woman Patti is, for she said something we won't soon forget. I asked her in the bookstore how it feels to be a civilian now. And she got a bittersweet look on her face as she glanced towards the Iraq photos she'd brought to display. She's torn up inside that this War on Terror is still going on and she's no longer a part of it. It pains her to know she left the Army while something is still undone.

My husband was touched by her response. We talked about how rare it is to find someone who takes personal responsibility for the fate of our nation. Patti feels guilt that she is not fighting this war, in stark contrast to most people we know who want as little role as possible. Patti feels herself to be part of something much larger than she is, and it was refreshing to hear someone express remorse at not doing more for her country.

We talked on the way home about all the stars that had to be aligned in order for us to have this wonderful afternoon with Tim and Patti. Patti had to be adopted by an American soldier in Korea. She had to come to the US and meet Tim in the Army. We both had to be stationed in Germany, even though Germany was nowhere to be found in our top ten choices of duty stations! We both had to start blogging. And Tim and I both had to overcome cries of Jody to meet each other face to face. Life came a long way to put the four of us in the same room, and my husband, not usually one to enjoy meeting new people, said how nice it felt to sit and talk to adults. Adult is the greatest compliment my husband can bestow.

Luckily, it looks like Tim and Patti might be headed our way in a few weeks. I am anxious to spend more time with them; four hours wasn't nearly enough.

I also wanted to talk to Tim about blogging. I've been at a crossroads lately, and I wanted to talk to someone who'd walked away. He misses it. Maybe we'll get him back...

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